How to start conversations

Key Factors to Consider When Initiating a Conversation with Someone Facing Mental Health Challenges

Did you know that approximately 20% of adults in Australia experience mental health challenges in a given year. In a world where mental health awareness is on the rise, it’s crucial to know how to initiate and navigate conversations with individuals who are facing mental health challenges. Understanding these factors can help you provide much-needed support and foster a more compassionate and empathetic community.

Here are some tips on how to start conversation with someone who is experiencing mental health challenges:

Use Active Listening 

Listen attentively without interrupting. Show that you’re fully present and interested in what they have to say. Use body language, such as nodding and maintaining eye contact, to demonstrate your engagement.

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Encourage them to share by asking open-ended questions. These questions invite more than a simple “yes” or “no” response and promote deeper discussion.

For example, instead of asking, “Are you okay?” you could ask, “How have you been feeling lately?”

Validate Their Feelings:

Acknowledge their emotions and feelings without trying to fix or minimise them. Phrases like “I can see that this is really difficult for you” can be comforting.

Avoid Giving Unsolicited Advice

Refrain from offering solutions or advice unless they specifically ask for it. Many times, individuals just need someone to listen and understand.

Follow Up

After the initial conversation, check in with them regularly to show ongoing support and care.

Each individual’s experience with mental health challenges is unique, so it’s essential to adapt your approach based on their comfort level and needs. Your empathetic and non-judgmental approach can make a significant difference in their journey towards well-being.

Initiating a conversation with someone facing mental health challenges is an act of compassion and empathy.

By considering these key factors – choosing the right time and place, showing empathy, using non-judgmental language, asking open-ended questions, educating yourself, respecting boundaries, offering support, staying calm and patient, and following up – you can create a supportive and understanding environment that encourages openness and healing.

Remember, your role is to be a caring friend or family member, not a mental health professional, so encourage them to seek professional help when needed. Together, we can contribute to reducing the stigma around mental health and provide vital support to those in need.